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Follow-Up : Saving Sour Cream October 30, 2009

Filed under: Baking, Homemaking — mom2giqm @ 7:23 pm


Just made my first dish using one of the tubs of sour cream that I froze a week and a half ago.

I made one of my favorite dishes…a dish that has it’s own business card (sort of)…my MIL’s Chicken Potato Dish. While the sour cream didn’t have the same consistency, it wasn’t too bad. Of course, it didn’t help that I totally FORGOT to add the cheddar cheese (I have a bad habit of making things without looking at the recipe).

All in all, it was a very worthy attempt to save my sour cream from being tossed, unused. Trust me. We will still happily eat this dish just the way it is (adding a little shredded cheddar when we reheat it, of course).

 

17: The Birthday of My Dreams – Part Two October 27, 2009

Filed under: Adoption, Family, Vacation — mom2giqm @ 3:22 pm


Anne-Marie’s Notes: I am so very excited to have my daughter, Lindsey, graciously writing some guest posts for my blog about our 2009 AZ Trip. Of course, no arm twisting was needed for the talented author to compile the tale.

If you have not already, you might want to read the Adoption Story to get a better understanding of our relationship.

The Trip – Day #2

The Crestview Community Church Adventure

I do not sleep well on sleepovers – especially on the first night. So, this mass “sleep-over”, if you will, was a little hard on my beauty sleep. By the time we arrived at Crestview Community Church for our 11:00 a.m. Church service, I’d had a total amount of 2.5 hours of sleep.

We all marched into the church, attracting quite an audience from onlookers. The greeter’s eyes bulged at the mere sight of our little group, and we exclaimed, “It looks like the bus was emptied here!”
“We’ve got donuts in the other room!” someone called.
The kids’ faces lit up. “No!!!!!!” Anne-Marie said, herding her children into the sanctuary.

It’s a miracle I didn’t fall asleep in church (due to being so sleep deprived). That’s all I remember about church – a really good sermon and feeling sleep deprived.

There wasn’t enough room for us all to sit together, so Mom, Anne-Marie, and the Munchies ended up sitting across the aisle from Dad, Allie and I. The Pastor provided the Munchies with Bible related activity booklets to keep them occupied.

We were on our way out of the sanctuary when Mom exclaimed, “The kids were so good, they deserve a donut!”

So Allie and I guided the Munchies into the donut room. They each grabbed a chocolate covered donut and munched away. The pastor’s wife laughed. “The kids always go for the chocolate ones.”

“Yeah,” I replied, “I’m probably the only one here who isn’t tempted to take one.” However, Allie stated later that she was not a donut person. So, this kid ODs on ice cream, and doesn’t like donuts? The things you learn on vacation.

We headed back to the cars, and Allie took advantage of the church’s cell phone reception to call her Mom and say “hi”.

The Hiking Adventure

Once back at the hotel, we parted ways for a brief time. Mom, Dad, Allie and I ate our New Frontiers deli sandwich lunch out on the porch of our creekhouse. From inside the creekhouse we could hear the NASCAR race blaring on the TV. Allie’s family has a tradition of watching NASCAR on the weekends, and voting on who will win the race. And of course, this trip would be no exception. Allie’s little brother had e-mailed her the name of a NASCAR racer guy whom her family had picked for her to vote for. Greg Biffel, or “The Biff” as Allie’s little brother had stated in his e-mail. Neither Allie nor I had heard of him – though I wouldn’t expect myself to know these things. I’m not into NASCAR (though I am guilty of watching the occasional NASCAR race now and then). Viva Jeff Gordon! Oops, did I say that? Harley Davidson Motorcycles are exciting enough for me. Whenever I see a Harley Davidson motorcycle, I cry out “HARLEY!”. Later, I would get into an argument with Allie’s older brother about the average speed of Harleys vs. “cheap imitation” motorcycles.

But I digress. Shortly after lunch, Allie and I had changed out of our church clothes and into more hiking appropriate clothes. My parents and the Shaffers did the same, and soon all nine of us were congregated in our creekhouse in preparation for our first hike – a short little hike up a trail behind the hotel. The Munchies were decked out in their swim gear, seeing as we’d be hiking right next to Oak Creek.

Finally, we all hiked out the door and down to the creek – all of us except for Mom and Anne-Marie, who were still busily talking about something of lesser importance (their lame excuse for delaying the start of our hike).

We were instructed to wait by the cattle-guard bridge, which we (being Allie and myself) did. But the Munchies headed right for the bridge.

“No kids!” we called, rushing up and pulling them away from the welcoming cattle-guard bridge.

Nate grabbed the tripod. “Come on,” he demanded, “set up the camera! This is the scene where…”

“We’re not filming anything until after the hike,” Anne-Marie stated as she and Mom approached.

We started our long, arduous journey across the bridge and up the trail. A little ways up the trail, we came to an area where a man-made canal ran under the path. We taught the Munchies the art of “Pooh-sticking” which kept their attention for about thirty some seconds.

We hiked up, Dad in the lead, followed by Nate, Allie, me, Helena, Gabe, Mom, Anne-Marie, and Danni. The Munchies ran to the edge of every drop off, scaring Anne-Marie and I to death.

Then, at last, we reached the top of the hill. Up there, Dad and I have a tradition of hiding pine cones and things like that under a rock. Every time we go up to Sedona, we check and see if the stuff is still there. It was, accompanied by millions of daddy-long-legs.

“Did you know,” Allie asked, “daddy-long-legs are one of the most poisonous spiders in the world?”

“What?” I asked in total shock. Don’t get me wrong, I am a very well-educated person. I’m just more interested in World War II dates and the capitals of African countries, and historical things that happened on my birthday.

“Yeah,” Anne-Marie said, “they’re one of the most poisonous spiders…but they can’t bite you cause their mouths are too small.”

Nate crouched down next to the spiders and shouted, “Losers! You’re loser spiders!” Allie and I cracked up.

We hiked on. The path became narrow, leading off to an almost straight drop off on one side. Anne-Marie took Danni by the hand, and I took Helena and we proceeded to cross this treacherous terrain. Attempting to keep Helena on the trail as much as possible, I stepped off the path and onto the side of the drop off, relying on the grip on my shoes to keep me from slipping to my death. It didn’t work. Loose sediment began to slide, taking me with it. In the nick of time, Anne-Marie grabbed me and pulled me to safety.

Suddenly, Dad exclaimed, “It’s a tarantula!”

The boys rushed forward to see. Allie took a picture. The girls pushed their way through the boys to see.

“That’s only a baby one,” Dad stated. “The ones at our house are huge.” He held up his hands to show how large they were.

“Wow,” Anne-Marie replied.

At last, Dad began to lead us off the trail and down toward the creek. The going was tough, especially because I was helping Helena along.

“Why can’t they just make these rocks like stairs?” Gabe replied.
I started to explain how the rocks were just there and happened to be part of a man-made path to the creek, but then figured that he was too young to comprehend what I was saying.

The creek at last! We helped the kids put on their water shoes and then watched them splash in the water. Allie and I watched from a rock in the creek. But, the Munchies really liked their big sister “Yindsey” and her friend “Island” (as Allie was called for the first day or so of the trip). Soon they were upon us, climbing around, literally, on top of us.

Munchies were all over me, grabbing my shirt for support. Like a knit tank top and a little empire waist shirt were going to save their lives.

Nate made his way across the creek, splashing in the water as he went. Gabe tried to follow, but slipped, grabbing Helena’s hair for support. Oh, that will give you so much more support than my tank top.

“Let go of your sister’s hair!” Anne-Marie called.

Gabe obeyed, but continued to follow Nate. Then, with a huge splash, Gabe was in the water, floundering for a rock to stand on. We all burst out laughing as he made his way back.

Nate was, by this time, on the other side of the creek, with no way of getting back. Anne-Marie took off her shoes and rock-hopped out as far as she could, which still wasn’t close enough. Then Allie took off her shoes and rock-hopped out to help Nate, having to step in the water in order to get close to him. But, by this time, Nate was on his way back safely, basically stranding Allie in the middle of the creek.

We started back toward the hotel. A large group passed us. Helena began to panic and exclaimed, “They’re going to steal our hotel room!”

We stopped at the AB Young trail to film one short scene, and then continued on our way back to the hotel. The boys and my Dad rushed ahead. Helena called to them, “Wait guys!” Needless to say, they didn’t wait. Isn’t that just like boys?

Helena humphed and muttered, “No-waiters.”

“Why don’t we take the kids to see the secret garden?” Mom suggested.

“Okay,” I replied, pushing my way to the front of the Munchies. “Follow me guys!” Nate and Gabe held my hands as I led them up the pathway. Allie followed. Mom and Anne-Marie had the girls.

“Up we go!” I called. “Just like the movie “Up”.”

“I really want to see that,” Allie stated. “Have you seen it yet?”

“[A friend of ours] wants to go see it,” I replied. “If she hasn’t seen it when I get back home, I’ll probably go see it with her…but she’s probably going to see it while I’m gone.”

“I don’t really know why they rated it PG,” Allie stated.

“It’s probably all that stuff movie makers put in nowadays,” I replied. “All that stuff I don’t want my two-year-old watching – hypothetically speaking, of course.”

Gabe looked shocked. “You have a two-year-old?”

I laughed. “No.”

Gabe got one of those gentle expressions on his face. “Lindsey, are you going to have a baby?”

Allie and I looked at each other, not knowing exactly how to react. “No.” I replied. “I should hope not. Anne-Marie would faint if I was going to.”

We arrived safely in the secret garden. The Munchies ran wildly through the garden as Dad collapsed, half dead from exhaustion, in the grass. Okay, okay, that was an over exaggeration. But we were all pretty tired.

Just for some details, the secret garden is a large patch of grass surrounded by tall pine trees. On the south side of the garden is a covered bridge which leads to a picnic table with a grill, and on the west side of the garden is a large wooden swing – large enough for all four Munchies to sit squished together. How do we know this? Simple answer – we tried it.

Dad swung the Munchies several times, then Anne-Marie, Helena and I got on for a much needed photo-op (we’d taken a boatload of pictures of me and the kids, and all nine of us as a group, but we had no pictures of just me and Anne-Marie!). Then Allie and I got on for our photo-op.

At last we headed back to our creekhouses for dinner. We’d gotten a work out that day, but we couldn’t wait to see what God had in store for tomorrow!


Haven’t read the 4 segments of Part One?: Preface, The Meeting, The Long Expected Party, & The Adventure.

 

Just for the Joy of It : My Top 25 Joys in Life October 22, 2009

Filed under: Blog Meme's, Family, Just for the Joy of It — mom2giqm @ 10:24 am


I could not resist the invitation to participate in Sharon’s blog meme about joy. Laughter is my favorite part of life. My day is not complete unless I have made someone else laugh. However, not having anything particularly joyful prepared, I had to sort of quickly decide what I should write concerning joy in my life. So, I decided to write briefly about the top things in my life that brings me joy! It’s not perfectly ordered, but the one’s that matter most are.

25) Losing weight – and keeping it off
24) Feeling better than I did the year before – more productive, more organized, more prepared
23) Being told I have a nice singing voice
22) Discovering new talents, developing new skills
21) Being a SAHHSM
20) Being able to make someone’s day thru something as simple as kindness
19) Getting thru the day without having killed anyone
18) Having people compliment my children on their manners
17) The stunned response from an employee when I bring the shopping cart back into the store
16) Having strangers tell me I look good
15) Having my husband tell me that I look good
14) My church family
13) Having a 60 yr man say to me (36), “I’ll defer to your knowledge.”
12) Getting responses to my blog
11) Making new friends thru social media
10) My Durango!
9) Starbucks – Grande, Non-fat w/whip Mocha.
8 ) Christian Rock & Heavy Metal – rocking out for Jesus!
7 ) Being a homeowner – I love home improvement projects
6 ) M – my youngest & funniest child – never ceases to make me smile (unless she’s being defiant and/or disobedient…and sometimes that’s even funny too). She even howls at the moon just because she can.
5 ) Q – always on the go -dancing & twirling & running & jumping & hopping & singing & drawing &…the list goes on – and oh, soooo drah-MA-tic. Hang nails & sucking chest wounds receive equal emphasis.
4 ) I – a lover & a fighter. He has always been extremely affectionate, but he loves to butt heads with me. As a toddler, he always wore a ski cap (we live in Florida). After we watched the first Spiderman movie, he pulled his ski mask over his nose, grabbed the sides of my head and kissed me on the lips…very slowly. And his love of hats protected his head when he fell head-first into an open pit fire at my in-laws.
3 ) G – 11 and not afraid of Mommy cooties. What he lacks in stealthiness, he makes up for in boisterous laughter. My little evangelist has been telling adults about Jesus since he was 5 or 6. Truly a light in a dark world.
2 ) Being blessed by God – particularly as it pertains my daughter, Lindsey, whom I have had the joy of knowing, seeing grow up, and even vacationing with. I never could have fathomed the blessings God would bestow on me…the depths of peace in my life…for listening and heeding His call to place her in the loving arms of a waiting family.
1 ) Growing in a personal relationship with the Savior who died for my sins!




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Works-For-Me Wednesday : Saving Sour Cream October 21, 2009

Filed under: Baking, Homemaking, Meal Planning, WMFW — mom2giqm @ 11:50 am

First time WFMW blogger here. Just thought I would warn you. This isn’t going to be the greatest post in the entire blogging world, but there was much rejoicing in my kitchen this morning…all by me, of course, and void of any musical accompaniment…but nonetheless.

Something in my fridge has been nagging me for awhile now. Sour Cream. More specifically, two unopened containers of sour cream with seemingly no hope of being used by their “best by” date (of yesterday…10.20.09).

Guess what? According to the experts at O Chef which I linked to from FoodChannel.com:

Unopened, commercially produced sour cream has a shelf-life of 45 to 60 days (Land O’Lakes-brand sour cream has a shelf life of 120 days), and certainly two or three weeks beyond the sell-by date.

You can freeze the sour cream (and we get about a dozen questions each day asking about that), but it will separate and not be the same when it thaws. If you’re just going to stir it into a soup or cook with it, that should be fine. If you intend to serve it as recognizable sour cream — say, on a baked potato — it will be disappointing.

Hey! That WORKS FOR ME!!!…since I only tend use sour cream in baking.

So, I thought I would share that glorious news in case someone else has some unopened sour cream with fast approaching “best by” date and no immediate plans to use it.

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PS – See my Follow-Up to see how freezing the sour cream worked out when I used it.

 

17: The Birthday of My Dreams – Part One: The Adventure October 5, 2009

Filed under: Adoption, Family, Vacation — mom2giqm @ 1:01 pm


Anne-Marie’s Notes: I am so very excited to have my daughter, Lindsey, graciously writing some guest posts for my blog about our 2009 AZ Trip. Of course, no arm twisting was needed for the talented author to compile the tale.

If you have not already, you might want to read the Adoption Story to get a better understanding of our relationship.

Part One is broken down into 4 segments: Preface, The Meeting, The Long Expected Party, & The Adventure.

The Adventure

Allie and I, along with some of my close friends back in Tucson, had filmed an amateur film back in March of 2009. I had sent it to Anne-Marie for mother’s day. My 9 year old brother Gabe also saw the movie which Allie and my other friends and I had created, and – being a wonderful human sponge – he absorbed and was inspired. He had to make a movie!

So, now in Sedona, with his three other siblings, big sister Lindsey, and Allie, he found his chance. He grabbed the family camera and I helped him attach it to my tripod.

Suddenly feeling an element of freedom, Gabe began to direct us, “Helena do this; Danni do that; Allie and Lindsey, pretend to be sleeping on the bed”. My 10 year old brother Nate was manning the camera. The film would be called “The Adventure”. It was about these people who get sent on a mission by the president (Nate) to find a treasure.

The only downside was that Allie, my friends back in Tucson and I had made a WW2 movie, in which the Germans were bad. They were referred to as “Nazis” throughout the movie, but somewhere in there, I guess we must have mentioned that the Nazis were Germans. Now I have nothing against Germans – being, myself, part German. But we failed to communicate the message that “all Germans aren’t Nazis”. All the Munchies – being only four of the many human sponges in the world – understood that to mean that all Germans are evil. So, guess who the bad guys were – Germans.

Altogether, the Munchies did a good job of putting everything together. They were really good actors for only being 10, 9, 6, and 5.

We were having a blast filming with the munchies, when Mom and Anne-Marie came in and told us it was time to go to bed. So we said “good-night” to the Munchies and returned to our creekhouse for the night. We would have to finish the Adventure later.

More of the story coming soon!

 

17: The Birthday of My Dreams – Part One: The Long Expected Party October 2, 2009

Filed under: Adoption, Family, Vacation — mom2giqm @ 6:31 pm


Anne-Marie’s Notes: I am so very excited to have my daughter, Lindsey, graciously writing some guest posts for my blog about our 2009 AZ Trip. Of course, no arm twisting was needed for the talented author to compile the tale.

If you have not already, you might want to read the Adoption Story to get a better understanding of our relationship.

Part One is broken down into 4 segments: Preface, The Meeting, The Long Expected Party, & The Adventure.

The Long Expected Party (Lord of the Rings, anyone?)

At long last we were settled into our hotel! We were in creekhouse 1, right on Oak Creek, and the Shaffer’s were nestled in creekhouse 21, literally right above us. Allie and I had spent the last several hours “babysitting” the kids while Anne-Marie had unpacked the rental car. By the time we made it to our creekhouse, Dad had unloaded all of our stuff and taken it upstairs to our loft. For our own sanity and privacy, Allie and I shared the loft upstairs, while my parents had “full reign” over the entire main level of the creekhouse. And besides, we wouldn’t keep them up late if we decided to stay up until 2 a.m.!

After dinner, we headed back up to the Shaffer’s headquarters. It had been raining, so everything was wet and dripping. Feeling goofy, I snuck into the creek house, motioning to Anne-Marie to be quiet. I crept up on the munchies as they ran spastically around the room. Then I leapt forth, screaming like a banshee.

My 6 year old sister, Helena screamed and exclaimed, “You scared me!”
My 5 year old sister Danni gave an exhilarated yelp and ran into my arms. “You’re back! You’re back!”

The munchies soon had Allie and I deeply involved in a Star Wars/Mission Impossible battle game on the back porch. Suddenly, Helena’s shoe went flying over the railing and into the forest. She gave a cry and began weeping bitterly.
Allie jumped into mission impossible mode! She dramatically swung herself over the railing, dropping herself with Elfish ease to the ground just below the porch. She quickly retrieved the shoe, handed it to the sobbing munchie, and swung herself back onto the porch.

Sometime after that we headed back inside for…a birthday party. Yes, we were 11 days late, but I didn’t care at that point. I was in Sedona, sitting at a table with my birthfamily and Allie, with a carrot cake sitting in front of me. We had no candles, nor did I need to blow them out. Not only would blowing out the candles not grant my wish in the first place, but I no longer had any need to blow them out. My wish had already been granted by someone much more powerful than seventeen pieces of decorative wax sticking out of my carrot cake. I believe that only God could’ve pulled this whole thing together, because it seemed impossible from an earthly perspective (as stated earlier). But He pulled everything together in a way none of us, leastways me, myself and I could’ve expected. (Believe me, the birthday party part was only the slow beginning to the most exciting trip to Sedona I have ever had. Please keep reading).

Next Installment: The Adventure

 

17: The Birthday of My Dreams – Part One: The Meeting October 2, 2009

Filed under: Adoption, Family, Vacation — mom2giqm @ 6:27 pm


Anne-Marie’s Notes: I am so very excited to have my daughter, Lindsey, graciously writing some guest posts for my blog about our 2009 AZ Trip. Of course, no arm twisting was needed for the talented author to compile the tale.

If you have not already, you might want to read the Adoption Story to get a better understanding of our relationship.

Part One is broken down into 4 segments: Preface, The Meeting, The Long Expected Party, & The Adventure.

The Trip – Day #1; The Meeting

I could hardly believe it when I found myself standing on Allie’s doorstep, helping her carry her luggage down the driveway to the car (okay, okay, so maybe I wasn’t carrying her luggage – Dad was carrying her suitcase, I was just walking with her).

Anyway, we’d arranged to meet Anne-Marie and the kids, who had flown into Phoenix (DH wasn’t coming). After a seemingly lengthy conversation via cell phones, we finally decided to meet at a random gas station. We arrived first, and Dad proceeded to fill up the car. Allie and I decided it was a great time for us to use the WC (the European abbreviation for restroom) for the following reasons:

a) We still had about an hour or so more driving before we reached Sedona.
b) So we could get it out of the way before Anne-Marie and kids got there.

Our excellent plan failed utterly, for at that moment, a silver Toyota Highlander pulled into the gas station parking lot, the window rolled down, and Anne-Marie waved to us. We smiled and waved back, and proceeded on toward our point of destination, only to find the door locked.

So, we headed inside to the cashier for the key. What she handed us was a huge orange monstrosity with a seemingly puny key connected to it.

Having successfully gained access to our point of destination, we headed back to the WC. Anne-Marie and the kids met us at the WC door. In my creative thoughts I’d never imagined such a meeting place – in front of a restaurant would’ve been more suited for this wonderful reunion.

After all of the formalities and many hugs and “Wow, you’ve really grown in the past 3 years!”, we climbed backed into our cars and headed north for Sedona. We caravanned; Dad in the lead and Anne-Marie following us in her rental car.

The hour or so of driving time flew by as Allie and I listened to Adventures in Odyssey and took pictures out the windows. We could hardly wait to see what the next 5 days would hold!

At last we espied the red peaks of Sedona in the distance. I tapped Allie and we removed our headphones long enough for me to tell her “Welcome to Sedona, Arizona.”

We made our traditional stop at New Frontiers, a grocery store in Sedona, for groceries! (We couldn’t get enough food for four people in the car with all of our luggage – we had a hard enough time packing sandwiches for the road! And of course Anne-Marie needed to.)

Something you must know at this point is that I hate any kind of sugar! I hate birthday cake and cupcakes and things like that, and I have proudly not eaten anything along those lines for the past 5 years! I only have one weak exception – carrot cake. Allie had been deprived of ever tasting that carrot flavored heaven. So I couldn’t wait to give her the experience.

As Allie and I strolled down the freezer aisle in our parkas (okay, okay, maybe not parkas), Allie looked longingly at the chocolate ice cream and explained to me that she’d told her Mom she’d be good on this trip and not eat any ice cream or sugar.

I stopped in front of the vanilla ice cream and grabbed a container, much to her shock. Then I explained how her desire to be at my birthday party would come true – complete with carrot cake.

Allie’s face lit up. “I’m sure Mommy will let me make an exception…because it’s your birthday.”

Next Installment: 17: The Birthday of My Dreams – Part One: The Long Expected Party

 

17: The Birthday of My Dreams – Part One: Preface October 2, 2009

Filed under: Adoption, Family, Vacation — mom2giqm @ 6:25 pm


Anne-Marie’s Notes: I am so very excited to have my daughter, Lindsey, graciously writing some guest posts for my blog about our 2009 AZ Trip. Of course, no arm twisting was needed for the talented author to compile the tale.

If you have not already, you might want to read the Adoption Story to get a better understanding of our relationship.

Part One is broken down into 4 segments: Preface, The Meeting, The Long Expected Party, & The Adventure.

Preface – Before there was a Birthfamily Sedona Trip [w/ Allie]

It had been three long years since I’d seen Anne-Marie (my birthmom) or my four little half-siblings (who I will lovingly refer to as “the Munchies” – a self-created slang version of “munchkins”). We’d talked about getting together again, but it had never worked out for either of us. In fall of 2008, I decided I’d had enough. It was time for a family reunion. My Mom agreed. Three years was too long.

At first, we considered driving out to Florida to see them in January of 2009. It seemed perfect. So, I started planning; looking at routes and hotels at various destinations. All my plans were coming together in my mind, but the reality was that time and money concerns prevented it from happening.

Then along came my birthday idea. Somewhere around February or March of 2009, I had formulated the birthday of my dreams. I can’t remember what I was doing, but somehow I was thinking ahead to my seventeenth birthday (which wouldn’t be until May). What was my dream? It was to have a birthday party in Sedona, AZ with my friend Allie and my birthfamily. But after Mom had told me how “unrealistic” it would be to expect my birthfamily to come all the way to Sedona, I finally settled on just taking Allie out of town the week before my birthday.

Mom got sick literally two days before we were to leave for our trip, so that whole thing had to be canceled. It was at this point that I spoke with Anne-Marie (which she wrote about in an earlier blog). I explained about how all of my birthday plans had been dashed, and then I told her about my birthday dream to take a trip to Sedona with Anne-Marie, the kids, and Allie. At first, Anne-Marie said that the best time for them would be the week of my birthday – the week of which Allie happened to be out of town. Oh well, at least I’d get to spend my birthday with my birthfamily.

But that wasn’t going to work because Mom still wasn’t up for traveling so soon. Then Dad said we could rebook Sedona for late May, early June. Soon after, I called Anne-Marie and Allie with the new travel dates – May 30th through June 6th.

In the meantime, Anne-Marie had started doing some research on flying to AZ, and when I told her the dates we had chosen, she made her decision to come too. Anne-Marie’s side of the trip slowly began to fall into place, but there was still Allie to worry about. At first, she sounded doubtful that her parents would allow her to be gone for 6 nights.

I’ll never forget the day Allie called me with her parents’ answer. They’d said yes to all six days of the big trip! With Anne-Marie and the kids coming, and Allie driving with us, it looked like my birthday dream with coming true!

Next Installment: 17: The Birthday of My Dreams – Part One: The Meeting