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Old Family Tradition – New Family Business


I’ve recently returned from Pennsylvania where I was privileged to learn the candy-making secrets of Grandma Ida. Grandma Ida, my husband’s paternal grandmother, has been making hand-dipped chocolates since the 1940′s! No one in the family, until now, has held her recipes.

While I’m not faulting anyone, no one else has had the interest in carrying on her tradition. Well, that’s not entirely true. She also had no interest in letting just anyone have the recipes. But of the people she would have given her secrets to, they just don’t have the time or the desire to do it.

Enter me. I love to learn new things. And my father-in-law has been asking me for years to come up while Grandma is doing candy so I can learn to do it. A few months ago it was decided that it was now or never. So, I gave up my plans to go to Hawaii (alone) for the opportunity to learn to make Grandma’s candies.

Long story short, it wasn’t a picture perfect week, but the candy-making effort was so successful that we’re now moving forward in starting a family business.

There are lots of things that I am researching and working to pull together to get this endeavor launched. One of the most important things, in my opinion, is the right name. That’s where you come in. I am asking you to cast a vote http://twtpoll.com/r/zqjg2e for the most appealing name on the list. Could you do that for me? Thanks! I really appreciate it!

Anne-Marie
Christian, homeschooling mom to 4, Republican Club Officer, local campaign manager, life-long-learner, home-birther, birthmother, ….and now candy-maker.

HomeSchool Peace…at last!


For several years we homeschooled under our state’s Home Education Program (HEP). The HEP required a Letter of Intent to the school district to announce our establishment of a homeschool program (done for each child), an annual evaluation by 1 of 5 state statute approved methods, and the mandatory keeping of portfolios. These things were sore spots for me. I complied, reluctantly, because I didn’t see that I had any other options.

Because of my strong dislike for the public school system under which I was tortured and persecuted (a topic for a whole post of it’s own), I wanted no association with the public schools. I tried to keep the contact to a minimum and hoped they would never ever ever call me to submit to a portfolio review. (We did get called in 2008, but were dismissed because of a scheduled trip out of state on that date.)

Annual evaluations always felt more like judgment day even though I have had nothing but wonderful certified teacher’s who have evaluated my children’s work. However, there are just so many things you can’t take pictures of, moments and achievements that cannot be demonstrated in a 3-ring binder. The longer I homeschool, the further away from workbooks I move. We do a lot of oral work. I read to them (a lot!) and we have long discussions. How can any evaluator ever “see” that?

From the very beginning, we have had trouble finishing certain subjects by the end of the “school year”. So we often rushed through the last month of our math curriculum, with me crossing off things I didn’t think they needed to review yet again, especially with next year’s math not so far away. Instead of allowing them to work at their own appropriate pace, I felt I was homeschooling to meet bogus requirements. That was very contra-indicative of our purpose.

The portfolio concept, while warm and fuzzy to an eduction major and politicians, is the furthest thing from my natural abilities. Try as I may, different methods of compiling throughout the years, it was always a last minute rush to put it together. I hated it! As I already stated, a portfolio never contained an accurate picture of what my children were learning. It was a big farce.

Each year at convention time, I longing gazed at umbrella schools. I was attracted to the idea of not being under the government system, but two things prevented me from going with an umbrella school. Costs and feeling like I was under an even bigger thumb.

Then last summer, someone on Twitter introduced me to a free private school (umbrella school) for homeschoolers…or rather, unschoolers. I was in the process of yet again compiling several portfolios for a very impromptu portfolio review that a friend had arranged for anyone who wanted to get it done and over with. As soon as I dropped my annual evaluation paper in the mail to the school district, I enrolled my children in Florida Unschoolers.

Now I have finally gotten to the reason for my post today. It’s March and I had to order MORE curriculum. My 10yo son completed his 4th grade math a few weeks ago and is now into his 5th grade math curriculum. My 11yo son is two days from completing his 5th grade math and will be starting his 6th grade math next week. We are 3 weeks from finishing our history curriculum. There have been numerous other accomplishments this year as well.

Without an impending portfolio review to worry about throughout the year, we have been free to learn without restrictions or regulations or government interference. And we have gotten more accomplished in a shorter time than in any previous year!

We are rolling right into “next” year’s curriculum, finally realizing the dream of year-round homeschooling. Year-round isn’t really as bad as it may seem. It’s not working 5 days per week for 52 weeks straight. It’s being able to take breaks without falling behind (to cram for portfolio evaluations). It’s each child working at their own pace and being able to have time to focus on their interests as well as having some structured learning. It’s working on family projects, doing life, learning new skills and training up the next generation. It’s losing the summer knowledge loss and gaining consistent reinforcement of important concepts.

Never in the course of our homeschooling journey have I felt more at ease while feeling we’re getting somewhere, where each child needs to be. We’ve got so many cool things on the horizon. And I finally have the strength to tackle and plan some new things with my kids…things they have been begging to do.

I am so thankful to God for this new opportunity He brought to me,. For opening my eyes and helping me change my original perspective. For seeing me through the rough times and for pouring out His peace on me along this journey.

Taming the Beast of Kid’s Artwork


      Crafty is not a word I use to describe myself. As I have mentioned before, I was more than content as a child to color in coloring books. I can recall two freehand drawings and I remember loathing art class.

      This is not so with my 4 freehand drawing kids. They draw and draw and draw some more. I can put a ream of paper in my printer paper drawer and it will be consumed in short order. 500 sheets…gone in a flash.

      Worse yet is the mess left behind. Paper everywhere.

      In the past, I tried to contain it by purchasing ring-bound sketch pads. (Tear-off sketch pads, while cheaper, were not considered since they would share the same fate as loose paper.) This worked for awhile, but my children quickly went through the sketch pads. Then I couldn’t remember where I purchased them since I had acquired them for our airplane travel entertainment. Then when I did locate them, oh my gosh…I could not believe how expensive they were. Some sketch pads can run up to $12 a piece. And in my mind $4 was too much already. Not to mention the hassle of tracking them down.

      Enter Macgyver. What I am about to show, I did out of desperation for my sanity. Here’s how I plan to tame the beast:

A stack of 3-hole punched copy paper & 3 - 1

Using scissors, I split a pocket folder in half.

Attaching the back half of folder thru the binder rings...

Attaching the front half of pocket folder to binder rings...

Taping the pocket...

      After I took the photos, I realized that I would do all future books a little differently. The difference is that I had already put the rings on two books last night so my girls could start.

      Starting without binder rings, you just line up the bottom folder half under the stack of paper, put the rings through, slip the top folder half onto the rings and snap them shut.

Here’s the cost breakdown for 40 books w/125 sheets each:

$42.99 – box 8.5″ x 11″ 3-hole punched copy paper, that’s 10 reams or 5000 sheets.
$34.32 – 128 – 1″ binder rings, 16 pk ($4.29 in store or $3.79 online per box)
$20.00 – 40 folders – I’m rounding high, I usually pay .10 to .50 each

This comes out to:
$2.43 per book, as listed above
$1.83 per book, if you don’t need any folders (I have plenty)
$3.06 per book, buying paper by the ream, rather than the case

     I am so looking forward to reclaiming the floors from the paper mess & keeping the kids out of my printer paper.

      Hope this helps someone else too.

2009-2010 Homeschool Year


I wasn’t aware of this when I posted my update this morning. So I am editing my post a tad & linking up to share & participate.

Local public schools will be in full swing next week. And even though we are homeschooling on a year-round basis and are not on the public school schedule, out of habit we tend to evaluate, make curriculum changes, & refocus during the summer. (Might have something to do with attending the curriculum convention in July too!)

A book was mentioned in a seminar (2 books actually, but I’ve only managed to find the 1st one) at that homeschool convention I attended in July, Discover Your Child’s Learning Style. Words cannot do this book justice. It has been so helpful to me already. I did the profile on myself first & that was big eye-opener. Let’s just say something I viewed as a vice in myself, is actually part of my mental processing & learning style. It seems so obvious now, but I really guilted myself about it for…well…all my life.

As for the children, I have completed 3 of the 4 profiles. I started to work the final profile, on son #2, but he was not in the right frame of mind & we got nowhere. But the words written about my oldest sons dominant learning style could not have been truer. Again, another set of things we viewed as vices and tried wrongly to eradicate in him.

As for M & Q: M scored a 10 out of 10 on the Performer Learning Style & Q scored an 8 out of 10 in the same. So, they don’t just like dressing up as princesses or pretending to be animals (M actually gets on her knees & howls at the moon), but this role-playing is a big part of how they learn.

Can you see how/why this is great information to have?

This year we have made some big changes to our curriculum.

After 4 years of using Horizons Math for my boys & attempting to use it for my oldest girl, we are switching. Actually, I have been waiting patiently for about two years to try Teaching Textbooks. Well, it’s finally out for 4th & 5th grade. The boys tried the online samples and were begging for it! They were begging to do math? Who stole my children & replaced them with math-enjoying aliens?

For my girls, I purchased the manipulatives for Math U See. We bought the Primer & Alpha DVDs & Teacher’s Manuals last year. I wanted to see if it would interest anyone before I became completely financially invested. My youngest loves to watch Mr. Demme. She was asking for the blocks all year, so I decided to give it a try. Neither girl is interested in workbook math. I’ve long suspected that Q knows more than she will let on during a workbook session. She’s been caught several times lately adding things she’s never been “taught” to add. She’s practically doing multiplication. M is paying attention and following in her footsteps.

We’re trying Mystery of History this year, Volume II. We skipped Volume I since we have focused on that part of history for 2-3 yrs now and really need to move on.

Our 2009-2010 Curriculum Summary:
Math: Teaching Textbooks, 4th & 5th grade (boys I & G, respectively) and Math U See Primer & Alpha (girls M & Q, respectively)
History: Mystery of History Vol. II
Science: Creation Geology (pub. by Media Angels) & the In The Hands of a Child complementing project pack and World of Plants (AiG)
Character: Developing Godly Character in Children
Literature Study: Heir of the Forgotten Realm (Tweener Press)
Handwriting: Classical Cursive Book I (the boys)
Critical Thinking: Visual Perceptual Skill Building Book I & Book II (girls)
Latin: Prima Latina (We started this 2 yrs ago, but now I think the boys are ready to do the actual workbooks. Girls love to be involved & recite the prayers & memorize the words too.)

MISC: I am also looking at All About Spelling, various reading & language arts programs, typing, & finding more ways to incorporate fun into our learning & our lives. And just for fun, we are going to do the Hot Diggety Dog lapbook (the semi-annual Freebie) from In the Hands of a Child. I am hoping that this will be a really good experience, full of fun & intrigue, so that we can do more lapbook projects. I love the concept, but I hated doing all the work. At first glance (last year), I thought Pre-made lapbooks were too expensive, but I’m starting to see their value.

Community Service: Another family project this year (and forever) will be in politics. I am in the process of helping to establish 2 groups for young voters (1 for teens, 1 for 18-40). Since my oldest son has had a long desire to be president and his brother has a desire to serve in his brother’s cabinet, I sat them down to see if they would be my helpers in these endeavors. Of course, the girls were anxious to offer their help too. And by the 2012 election, my boys will be 13 & 14 and my girls will be 9 & 11. That makes me want to cry because it seems so far off, but it will be here before I know it.

Additional Goals:

  • To learn about our Spiritual Gifts and how to use them for to the Glory of God.
  • To develop Godly & Christ-like character, in our home & in public.
  • Hide more of God’s Word in our hearts.
  • Learn to be more loving & effective in correcting my children.
  • Make personal sacrifices & eliminate wasteful tasks in my life.

About The Students:

  • G is a 10yo boy in 5th grade
  • I is a 9yo boy in 4th grade
  • Q is a 7yo girl in 1st grade
  • M is a 5.5yo girl in Kindergarten

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Product Review – ItzaBitza – 6.29.09


As a home educating mom of 4 and a wife to a technology guru, two things are prevalent in our house: researching & trying out new curriculum & learning tools and technology.

ItzaBitza is one of the most intriguing kid’s programs I have ever seen.

Most computer games of this genre make claims they never come close to delivering on. Our game bin is full of so-so and down-right disappointing wastes of money.

ItzaBitza, while it has a slight learning curve (no more than any good game), is so enjoyable. All of the integrated aspects (drawing, reading, following instructions, problem-solving, and creative play, etc.) was beyond my expectations. I especially enjoyed watching my children work independently, not requiring too much assistance from mom after the initial run through.

I downloaded the game last week at ItzaBitza.comand had my 6 yr old try it. I meant to have my 5 yr old try it out that day to, but we didn’t get around to it until this morning. Before long, the entire gang was crowded around the computer, each demanding a turn.

When they were finally done playing (3 hrs later), I interviewed them. Here’s what my crew had to say:

  • 10yr old boy says: “I though it was pretty cool and very interactive. Very fun! I liked how I was able to draw and how I could get a dog.”

  • 9yr old boy says: “I enjoyed playing ItzaBitza. It was fun to draw houses, find the mail, and get the packages. I liked building a doghouse too! And picking the flowers, making it rain on the flowers and the puppies. I liked all of it!”

  • 6yr old girl says: “I liked making a house, making a tree, and a sun and a cloud. I liked all the dogs.”

  • 5yo says: “I want to play it again! It was beautiful. I drawed everything.”

  • My Suggestions to Parents:

    1. Unless you only have teenagers, don’t let “PreK-K and up” steer you away from this game. The older kids enjoyed it just as much as the younger ones. There’s nothing “babyish” about it.
    2. Download the trial.
    3. If you or your child don’t like background music, turn it off under Options before you start the game. (I personally find most background music detracting & annoying.)
    4. Sit with the child the first time and make sure they understand the instructions. They’ll be off and running on their own before you know it.
    5. Watch/Listen and delight in their fun, enthusiasm, excitement and creative learning.

    My Playing Tips:

    • Make sure your child understands that we read text from left to right, top to bottom so they can move their mouse over the words in the proper order (it reads to them if they can’t).
    • Draw from the bottom up, i.e. the bottom box of the house first, then the roof or the tree trunk first, then the tree top, etc.
    • Click on the faded stars to see further instructions for completing a task, then the star will turn gold.
    • Some things must be drawn full size and in place (houses, trees), but other things can be drawn any size (piece of mail).

    Well, I hope you enjoyed our family review of ItzaBitza. You can download your free trial at ItzaBitza.com You can also Follow the CEO, Margaret, on Twitter .

    Note: This was an independent, unsolicited product review.

Our Personal Freedom from TV

After reading Robin’s blog “Who Spends Time With Your Children?”, I realized my long drawn out comments were better off in my own blog.


I have been tv free for almost 15 yrs. It started out against my will, but I learned to find other things to fill that time (such as studying Scottish Gaelic). I was truly free from it and couldn’t believe I had wasted so much time in front of it for so long.


I grew up in a family where the tv was on from 7 am to bedtime every day. My parents seemed to live for Prime Time and my mother was addicted to soap operas. And I had my own tv (b&w initially) in the seclusion of my own bedroom at the age of 5. (It’s a good thing I could be trusted, for the most part, not to watch something I was told not to watch.) In my early teens, I received the gift of cable tv for one year. It was a household thing. It was in my bedroom exclusively. I watched a lot of Donna Reed that year. It’s no wonder I couldn’t be bothered with doing my homework. Between MTV and Nick at Night, who had time?


Our family (now) has never had access to tv in our home. My husband was tv free when we married because he had to choose between cable and food. We never acquired it because we both knew it was so full of junk we didn’t want to watch anyways and would spend just as much going to Blockbuster. Cable tv seemed pointless and so it was never invited into our home.


We do have tvs…three (3) to be exact. Only one actually gets used on a somewhat regular basis. We do watch things. We like to pick tv series that have been out for several years, Netflix them and watch them together. But our tv is on much less than the average American household. I do a little happy dance at the end of the day when I realize we never turned it on all day.


A lot of what we watch has educational value too. The things that aren’t as obvious, we use for family discussion and critical thinking.


Everything our children watch via dvd or video is approved by and/or watched with us. The dvd player is out of their reach (due to the armoire design), yet they don’t seem to care. And if you have ever rented a dvd that is all scratched up you know there are plenty of people who think dvds are indestructible…which they aren’t. So, for investment purposes, children in our house are not allowed to carelessly and recklessly handle dvds. We’re not control freaks. They are given opportunities and lessons and also know the pain of ruining a dvd that we won’t replace.


Our children have not been entirely sheltered either. They have seen real time tv at my in-laws and on vacations, so they know the difference between what the world does and how we use our tv. It was hysterical the first time they encountered a commercial and real time tv. The boys were 4 & 5, we were in a hotel, and Star Wars was on some channel. The movie was interrupted with a commercial and the protesting began: “What happened to my movie?” We explained the phenomena of commercials. Then we went out to dinner and returned. They wanted to pick up Star Wars where they had left off. Uh…sorry, that doesn’t happen. This is “real” tv. Oh boy were they mad! We laughed on the inside. They hated “real” tv and we were so happy.


As much as we may watch movies or tv shows in our modified form, this experience is much different than what either of us had growing up. TV doesn’t demand our time on it’s own inflexible schedule. We have complete control. For us, that is what it means to have freedom from tv.

My Find of the Week!

Recently, I came upon another homeschool site/blog HomeSchool With Index Cards and I had the biggest DUH moment of my homeschooling career.

For years I have been stockpiling a variety of flash cards…you know…for the kids, of course. I would excitedly purchase them for educational purposes. Once home, I locked them safely in the cabinet in the mudroom with all their other flash card friends. After all, what good is a flash card deck of 23 letters or 45 states? And that’s exactly what happened IF I dared to let the children use them.

Well, Molly has liberated me with her ingenious homeschooling method.

Today, I made 13 of these ring books (named for the Book Rings used to hold them together) from the unopened flash cards I had.

Ring Books

Ring Books

I’ve also embarked on creating some of my own (I think Words for Writing is visible in the photo).

This is such a GREAT idea that I just could not believe that I hadn’t considered it before. I’m so thankful for finding Molly’s website. She offers freebies index cards to print and sells others that she has created (for pennies when you consider her effort). We’re already having fun with these books.

I also want to share the Classical Astronomy website find too. Jay Ryan has inspired us to look at the stars. And it was a link on his blog that led to me to Molly’s website.

Check them both out!

Bible Bee-Attitudes

Sharing something I found today! – AMS

Bee-Attitudes
Bible Bee

All Bible Bee contestants will be encouraged to memorize and fully embrace the following “Bee-Attitudes,” as they will serve as the hallmark creed for all Bible Bee Contests.

Behold the glory of Jesus Christ (John 17:24).

Believe that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God, who came into the world (John 11:27).

Be transformed into the image of Christ (2 Corinthians 3:18).

Become an ambassador for Christ (2 Corinthians 5:20).

Boldly preach the Gospel of Christ to the world (1 Thessalonians 2:2).

Be a contender for the faith (Jude 1:3).

Build a Christian foundation for the next generation (Psalm 78:6).

Experimenting with a Year-Round Schedule

On January 5th, 2009, we will embark on a new home education schedule.

It’s going to look something like this:

7 week sessions, 7 sessions per calendar year.
4 days per week during the 7 weeks, with a 2 day break in between which will translate into a 4 day weekend (either a Thurs-Sun or a Sat-Tues).

Fridays will be open for playdates, field trips, art, etc.

That gives us 196 “school” days (not that I keep track of actual school days since things like Math are based on the 180 day ps cycle).

Overall Goals:
More consistency
Limiting knowledge loss from the traditionally longer breaks
Mom can schedule her projects and appts to have less impact on school days
Provides an outline for planning out unit studies

Note: Yes, I realize I have not accounted for holidays and such. The schedule just occurred to me the other day, so I haven’t noodled all the details out yet. But I know that this household definitely needs some scheduling.

Welcome to my world!

Without looking at a calendar, I couldn’t tell you for sure what the date is. Quite often I don’t even know what day of the week it is. I haven’t worn a watch in years. Generally, I wake up when I wake up and I go to bed when I want to go to bed. Some days I wish I could sleep all day. Other days I am up at the crack of dawn with accomplishments under my belt before the first child stirs. Sometimes I think I am the laziest person in the world. Other times I’m sure I am the laziest person in the world. Yet…I still manage to get “it” all done….whatever the daily “it” is. Unless, of course, I can reprioritize…which is something like procrastination, but it sounds much better…much more efficient.

When I finally pull myself out of bed, I am busy homeschooling my 4 children. We are two weeks into our 5th year. Five years ago I expected to school 7 days a week with eager obedient children. Five years before that I envisioned homeschooling in a little classroom with desks and a chalkboard with obedient and eager-to-learn children. <maniacal laughter> After schooling at the dining room table for 3 yrs, I finally bought desks and set up a classroom area in a corner of the family room with a whiteboard. They were thrilled to have their own space. One battle won. — But those obedient and eager-to-learn children I envisioned for years only exists in the depths of my wild imagination. They just don’t get it. And I can’t seem to make them get it. They haven’t experienced how horrible institutionalized schooling can be…and was for me and their father. — Still, I plug along…reminding myself of the goal. And every now and then I see progress. Today actually, I sat down with a teacher to have her review their portfolios for the past year. She saw progress and I was greatly encouraged by that. I’ll sleep better tonight and wake up with a renewed excitement to further plan out our year. (See I am already thinking about sleeping.)

When I am not busy homeschooling, I am busy managing a local political campaign. The election is Nov 4th. People have asked me if I will ever do this again. It’s like childbirth. We never think at that moment that we will ever do it again, but then the amnesia sets in. So, I’m not going to make that decision today or even on Nov 5th. I’ll cross that bridge when I come to it…and hope that I maintain the presence of mind to make an educated decision. It’s been an education…and I’ll be sure to write more about it.

Well, that’s enough of a peek into my world for now.

A-M

UPDATED – 12.16.08 – The campaign has been over for two months, so I thought I would provide a little update. I’ve already accepted the request to once again be his campaign manager for another go-around in 4 yrs. There will be lots of planning before we have to strap into the ejection seat of busyness. I remember when 4 yrs seemed like an eternity. 4 yrs of high school? 4 yr of college? Oh, the torture of such long periods of time. Will I ever be free? Hee hee. Now, time passes just to show us how fast time passes.