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Scary Numbers February 3, 2010

Filed under: Finances, Homemaking — mom2giqm @ 12:11 am


What I am about to show you is not for the faint of heart. Please keep your hands and legs inside the car at all times. Do not attempt to exit the ride until it comes to a full & complete stop.

Without further delay, allow me to demonstrate what a year of uncontrolled spending (groceries, eating out, & Starbucks) looks like.

$14,891.14


FOURTEEN THOUSAND, EIGHT HUNDRED, NINETY-ONE DOLLARS & 14 cents !


Of that amount:

$9,394.76 was spent on groceries

$4,324.93 was spent at restaurants

that leaves $1,171.45 that was spent at Starbucks

Yes, the Starbucks data was a big shock to me. I freely admit that we go to Starbucks quite a bit, but I never imagined how much it was costing us. When I relayed the Starbucks information to my coffee-fanatic husband, he replied, “I guess we should stop going to Starbucks.” Well, I’m certainly glad he agrees with me on that. In fact, we haven’t been to Starbucks since the beginning of the new year because our church was beginning a 21 day fast & both dh and I have some health goals we’re trying to achieve. And, well, Starbucks…even with the healthy options…doesn’t fit together with those health goals.

Our annual grocery budget is $7800. That’s a hefty number in itself. However, there are 6 of us and that only boils down to $150 per week. But we spent more than $7000 over our annual budget in all combined areas and almost $1600 of that at the grocery store).

Additionally, we were only supposed to eat out once per month in 2009, but that’s apparently ($4,324.93) not what happened.

It took me awhile to compile these totals, but I knew that I would need to know what we had spent to be able to reduce our spending this year & in the years to come. Since I began couponing in late June 2009, I have seen a difference. Not so much in what is spent on groceries, but rather how my cupboards are bursting with food.

My goal this year is to continue in these efforts…saving, stockpiling, and reducing unnecessary spending. Hopefully, in a few days or so, I will be able to share what was spent on everything in January 2010 so we can see how we’re doing.

This might seem like an odd thing to share since it’s really rather personal, but I have learned from other bloggers I admire that this kind of transparency is beneficial to both the blogger and the reader. For me it’s like beating my best score, in a declining fashion. And maybe there is at least one person who can find something useful in it.

 

Adoption Day 2010 January 8, 2010

Filed under: Family — mom2giqm @ 12:14 am


Today, January 7th, 2010, we adopted the newest member of our family. His name is Tyler and he’s 4 months old.

Tyler

Tyler


Tyler thinks G's pants are tasty.


He really likes this sofa. He's spent much of his first hours here on it.


Tyler likes to play with G & the mouse on the string.


This is a momentous occasion as we have never had a family pet other than fish which have been solely dh’s responsibility. And even though dh has never been a cat person, this was his idea. Oh the things that men will do for their little girls!

So far, he seems to favor my oldest (G) and my youngest (M)…aside from dh & me. (I) & (Q) are weird with animals though they were fine when we played with the cats at the humane society. I’m sure both will warm up to him very soon. And miracle of all miracles, (Q)’s room has never…and I mean absolutely NEVER…been so clean as it was after we brought the kitten home. I guess she took us serious about the damage the kitten could do to things left unattended.

Well, we’re all pretty excited about this new adventure. And it’s a gonna be a very long night…..

 

Bible in 90 days: Day 2 January 3, 2010

Filed under: B90Days — mom2giqm @ 3:25 pm


While I have committed to reading through the Bible in 90 days, I haven’t committed (to myself) to blog each day. It’s my intention to blog as things stand out to me. So, that’s what I am doing today.

Scripture Read: Genesis 17:1-28:9

Two things stood out to me:

#1 Abraham married after Sarah died & had several more children. He even lived long enough to see them into adulthood. (Genesis 25:1-8)

Even though I took Survey of the Old Testament at a Bible College, I did not recall Abraham remarrying and having more children. I actually stumbled upon this passage a few months ago during the Sunday service. The sermon was about something else, but I glanced down to read “Now Abraham married again…” and became very intrigued. This is one of those reminders for re-reading the Bible & always having new things revealed each time. Though we don’t know much about Abraham’s 2nd wife and her children by him, it’s interesting that this is a much ignored topic in all those stories & sermons about Abraham. Many might shrug their shoulders saying “Big deal. Abraham remarried.”, but I’m drawn back to remember Bruce Wilkinson teaching on The Prayer of Jabez. The Bible is the inspired Word of God. If it’s in there, He wants us to know…just like the short blurb about Jabez. I, for one, am very tired of watered-down Bible teaching.

#2 It’s always been taught as if pure greed motivated Rebekah and Jacob to trick Isaac into giving Jacob his brother’s blessing. Again, our watered-down Bible lessons fail to mention some important family dynamics. Esau had married not 1, but 2 Hittite women (Genesis 26:34) and verse 35 says, “But Esau’s wives made life miserable for Isaac and Rebekah.”

Even though Rebekah clearly took matters into her own hands rather than trusting the Lord, Genesis 26:34-35 indicates that she did so because she feared what would happen if Esau received his father’s blessing. She probably saw it as leaving the family inheritance to the child who consistently makes bad decisions and blessing the very women who made her miserable. Perhaps she had the same sick feeling I get when I see parents bailing out their irresponsible adult children rather than allowing them to experience the consequences of their repetitive bad choices.

Esau’s taking Hittite women for his wives bothered Isaac too. In Genesis 28:1-2, Isaac tells Isaac not to marry any Canaanite women, but to return to Abraham’s family to seek a bride. Rebekah even says, in Genesis 27:46, that she is tired of these “Hittite women” and that would “rather die than see Jacob marry one of them”.

Of course, tricking Isaac was wrong…and it would be really interesting to know what God’s plan had been, and Rebekah and Jacob’s behavior is not to be excused, but there is more to the story than many of us have been told.

 

2010 To-Do List & Wishful Thinking January 1, 2010

Filed under: Planning — mom2giqm @ 5:05 pm


Thank you, Toni ( TheHappyHousewife.com )for providing the perfect way to share our 2010 goals. I’ve been giving mine a lot of thought, had even started a blog post earlier in the week, but could never quite pull it together.


2010 To-Do List & Wishful Thinking
Well, I just printed the Motivated Moms Chore Planner that I purchased last week. Now I need to get a binder out of my storage cabinet & do the hole-punching. That’s one down….

…and oh, so many more to go…


Bible/Spiritual
• Aside from participating with Mom’s Toolbox in reading the Bible in 90 days, I will continue to pray and consider completing a Bible Studies degree.
• Blogging after church on Sunday’s about the sermon, not as a critic, but to dig deeper into the message and God’s Word.
• Continue to study & teach on Godly character traits
• Discovering how to use the talents/skills God gave me to His glory
Books to Read (or finish)
Wild at Heart: Discovering the Secret of a Man’s Soul by John Eldridge
• The Successful Homeschool Family Handbook by Dr. Raymond & Dorothy Moore
401 Ways to Get Your Kids to Work at Home by Bonnie Runyan McCullough & Susan Walker Monson
Blogging
• Developing a blog schedule
• Being consistent in blogging
• Deciding whether to move to a domain
• Re-design the blog layout
Household
• Continuing to declutter & prevent new clutter throughout the house
• Cleaning out & reorganizing the shed
• Remodeling the Master Bath
• Keep the mudroom from becoming the clutter storage zone
• Donating the dresser I’ve used for storage in the mudroom & installing a more functional storage base cabinet
• Keep striving for the goal of being debt-free
• Maintaining a grocery savings/spending log
• Continuing to be diligent in meal planning, couponing, & stockpiling.
Home Education/Life Skills Training
• Fostering more personal study interests
• Learning more about the learning styles & educational needs of each child
• Do more ‘school’ through game playing
Personal
• Purposing to speak more softly & directly to my children
• Allowing God to use me
• Putting my structure in my day
• Starting & maintaining a Gratitude Journal
• Trusting God in ALL things!


There’s probably a ton of other things I could/should add to this list, but this will suffice for my post. My New Year’s Day is already full of things to tackle since the past two weeks have been a serious deviation from the norm. I suppose, though, we all did need a break. But, now, I have to get everything back on track…and I have to start with all of my stuff that I have let slide.

I can’t wait to see & be encouraged by what everyone else has planned for their year too.

 

17; The Birthday of My Dreams – Part Three December 24, 2009

Filed under: Adoption, Family, Vacation — mom2giqm @ 10:14 pm


Anne-Marie’s Notes: I am so very excited to have my daughter, Lindsey, graciously writing some guest posts for my blog about our 2009 AZ Trip. Of course, no arm twisting was needed for the talented author to compile the tale.

If you have not already, you might want to read the Adoption Story to get a better understanding of our relationship.

The Trip : Day #3; ????????? (if you count the “?”s carefully, you will notice that there are nine of them – one for each person in our party)

On the evening of May 31st, after our hike, Anne-Marie had called and said that Danni was unwell with the sickies. By the morning of June 1st, Nate had also come down with the sickies. So…Anne-Marie stayed at the hotel with the Munchies. As to what Mom, Dad, Allie and I did…well, that shall remain a mystery! Bwah hah hah hah hah! : )

The Trip – Day #4; The Multi-Destination Adventure (Sedona – GC – Flagstaff)

After all of the last minute packing details, we were finally on the road to Flagstaff. We were very sad to say “good-bye” to Sedona and Oak Creek Canyon, but the next adventure had just begun. We were departing the first phase of our journey and entering into the second. As we drove up the mountain on Highway 89A toward Flagstaff, I listened to Take Me Home, Country Road on my iRiver while Allie called her Mom. Leaving Oak Creek Canyon meant cell phone reception!

With the Shaffers in tow, we headed up the switchback highway toward Flag. Allie hung up with her Mom, and we started listening to Prince Caspian soundtrack.

At the top of the hill, we pulled off into a viewing area. The Munchies parked two cars away. They began to walk toward the viewing point. Mom, Dad, Allie and I followed. The minute the Munchies became aware of our presence, they were upon us. After the usual amount of “hellos”, we continued to the viewing point. Nate has this thing where, when he really wants something, he will beg in the most pathetic tone possible. He widens his eyes and looks so pitiful that you think he’ll die if he doesn’t get what he wants. It really cracks me up.

No sooner were we at the viewing point then the begging began. “Can I pleeeeeeeeaaaaaaasssse borrow your camera? Pleeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaaasssssssssssssseeeeeeeeee? Pleeeeeeeaaaaaassssseeee? Pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaassssssssssssssssssssssssseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee?”
Allie handed Nate her camera. “Put the loop around your wrist.” She later told me that she was nervous that Nate would drop it over the cliff. But he did take some really cool pictures!

We hung around for awhile, then departed for our main destination – the Grand Canyon. Oh yes, did I mention that we all (nine of us to be exact) were going to pay a quick little visit to the Grand Canyon before we headed to Flagstaff? Yeah, it was kinda out of the way, and three out of nine of us [Dad, Mom and me] had already seen it more than once, but at least one of the nine of us [Nate] really wanted to see it, and another one of the nine of us [Allie] had been there but didn’t remember anything about it except for the clinic she had to visit because of her strep throat. (Anne-Marie’s interjection: I’ve also been to Grand Canyon more than once.)

With no strep throat or any other illnesses in sight, we made our way up to the canyon entrance. Allie was clearly excited. For the sake of my mother’s pride, I will not tell you how we managed to get into the park for free. We drove on, down the road leading into the park. Dead trees mingled with living trees lined the road like an eerie wall. Then finally, we saw it! Occasionally through the broken trees could be seen patches of red, yellow, and even purple rock.

I tapped Allie on the shoulder and pointed. “Allie…welcome to the Grand Canyon.” A smile exploded onto her face. She seemed to become a young child again, visiting the Grand Canyon with her parents and brothers for the first time. Who really cared if we were just a surrogate family? She was here!

We pulled into a viewing point and unloaded the kids. The girls were delegated to us, while the boys were delegated to Anne-Marie and Mom. Dad avoided us as much as possible. Helena instantly came up to me, holding out her hand for me to take it. “I want to go with you, Lindsey.” Danni clung to Allie’s hand. Although my sister and my best friend had only known each other for four days, Danni had taken an obvious liking to Allie.

We made our way into the visitor’s center. All of our eyes popped when we saw the huge observation window. The kids eagerly crowded up to the window. They stared in amazement at the wonder of the canyon. Gabe snapped a few pictures.

After having been overloaded with canyon beauty, the Munchies turned to face the visitor’s center. Their eyes popped once again as they rushed toward the large model of the canyon – Helena and Danni dragging me and Allie along with them. They marveled at it, running their little fingers along the “rivers”.

“Where are we?” Gabe asked. I came up along side him and pointed. “Right here.”

Slowly the Munchies lost interest in the model of the canyon, and one by one made their way into the visitor’s center – a miniature museum of sorts. The place was crawling with evolution. Everything as far as the eye could see said “millions and billions of years ago” in one form or another. But this deceptive information went right over the heads of the Munchies. Ignoring the googols of years, they approached and touched every display they were interested in.

Helena led me to a rock which hung from the wall. The caption read “Start the Half Time Clock. Measuring Deep Time”, and an arrow pointed to a little red button. Anne-Marie pushed the button. To our surprise, oodles of lights burst from the rock like a constellation in the sky. Half the lights went off. Then half of that half, and so on and so forth until the whole rock was once again dark.
I rolled my eyes. Oh great. More evolution. “It’s evolutionary,” I told Anne-Marie.
She looked surprised. “Oh really?”
“Yeah,” I explained as best as I could from what I remembered from my scientific studies, “It’s something to do with the amount of oxygen in the rock. [Evolutionists] think that rocks lose half of their oxygen over a long period of time.”
“Actually,” Allie stated, coming up behind us with Danni in tow, “it’s the amount of carbon.” She pointed to the sign. “It says so right there.”
I did know that! It had just escaped my mind! But, I know where to give credit when credit it due. “Thank you,” I said to Allie.

Helena was inspired. She pushed the button, causing the rock to light up again. “Wow,” she said in ecstasy, “The rock sparkles. I didn’t know they did that!”

Finally she led us away to the other side of the room, to a wall display of trilobites and other such supposedly extinct creatures.

Then they saw it. Another observation window facing the canyon. Gabe snapped pictures like a mad man. Helena was inspired.
“Can I use your camera?” Helena asked Allie, in the most pleading tone of voice she could muster.

Allie looked nervous. “Sure,” she replied, handing Helena her camera, “Put the loop around your wrist.”

Within several minutes, Allie’s camera lost pictures as Helena went mad, spastically taking pictures of everything she could focus the camera on.

As we headed outside to the multiple viewing points, I took hold of Allie’s camera. “Let me hold that for you, Helena .”
“No,” Helena said, pulling the camera away, “I can carry it.”
“Let me carry it outside for you,” I offered.

The kids ran to the guard wall and leaned over the edge. These guard walls are only about two, maybe three feet tall, so I have no idea how that’s supposed to save a loose 5-10 year old from falling to his/her doom. Mom, Anne-Marie, Allie and I pulled them back.

They stared in awe at the canyon. “Those are mountains!” one of the Munchies exclaimed, pointing to the rock formations. “Look at the mountains.” I couldn’t help laughing.

We walked on, visiting viewing point after viewing point. Then we saw the death trap…a lookout point situated on a cliff, jutting out over the canyon, only surrounded by a piddly chain link fence. There is no way the Munchies are going down there!

“Why don’t we watch the kids,” Mom offered, “and you and Allie go down there and take some pictures.” Taking her camera away from Helena, Allie and I made our way to the viewing point. Dad was already down there when we arrived. We walked up to the rail and gazed over into the overwhelmingly deep canyon. One thing you must know about me at this point is that I have morbid acrophobia. So now, standing on the edge of the Grand Canyon (for only the fourth time in my short life) with only a piece of chain link fence between me and a plunge to my doom, I started getting vertigo and stepped back.

“I’m having vertigo,” I said out loud.
Allie heard me. “Oh no!” She exclaimed. “Just don’t look down.” She turned me around. “Look at your Dad.” She wrapped her arm protectively around my shoulders. “You’re going to be all right, Lindsey.” That much I did know.

(Anne-Marie’s 2nd interjection: After Lindsey & Allie returned, at her mom’s suggestion, I took the Munchies, one at a time, down to the launch point of doom lookout point while someone snapped a photo of each one clinging to the chain link fence.)

Lunch rolled around and the kids were ready to go. So we packed up and headed to a wooded area to eat our sandwich lunches. I tapped Allie on the shoulder. “Are you tempted?”
“By what?” Allie asked me.
I pointed to a nearby tree. Allie chuckled. She was an avid tree-climber, but wasn’t about to climb a tree on this trip.

We took up two tables; Mom, Dad and Anne-Marie took up one table, and Nate, Helena , Danni , Allie and myself took up the other. That’s when the trouble started. Gabe claimed not to be hungry and ran off through the woods. We called to him to come and sit down, but he pretended not to hear us.

After lunch, we let the kids run around. While Allie hung with Nate and Danni , I ran after Helena , who was chasing after the ever-rebellious Gabe. From what I understand, he hit her. She went crying to Anne-Marie. He went tearing off in the other direction. I returned to Allie, Nate and Danni , keeping Gabe in sight.

Nate led Danni and myself on a walk across some logs which lay around. Then it was time to go.

“Gabe!” Anne-Marie called to him. “Come on! We’re leaving!”
He ignored her and headed into a nearby graveyard. I’m not usually afraid of graveyards, but this one just creeped me out. It looked like an old Indian graveyard, and who knew what creepy things might be lurking in there.
“Gabe,” I called, “please come back, for me!”
He ignored me. I ran toward him, just as he entered the graveyard. Oh great! It’s just another one of my paranoia’s – old Indian graveyards.
I prayed for God to give me courage and then headed into the graveyard. It was like walking into a Spiderwick Chronicle book.
I quickened my pace to catch Gabe. He started running.
“Gabe,” I shouted angrily, “get back here right now!”
I took him by the arm and led him from the graveyard, gripping his arm tightly to prevent him from escaping.
“Why are you mad?” Gabe asked me.
Had I been acting mad? “It’s nothing,” I replied.

We piled back in our respective vehicles and headed south toward Flagstaff. Allie and I listened to more Adventures in Odyssey, occasionally glancing back over our shoulders to make sure Anne-Marie was still following us.

Finally, the tall peaks of Mt. Humphreys – the tallest mountain in AZ – appeared in the distance. To me it seemed big. To Allie (being from Oregon) it seemed small. But to the Munchies it seemed huge, immense, titanic, gigantic, colossal, elephantine, monstrous, humungous, and gargantuan! They were impressed.

Dad led Anne-Marie to our hotel – the Little America. We had stayed here many times before, but for Allie, Anne-Marie and the Munchies it was a new adventure! Little did I know it would be a whole new adventure for me too!

We were in building four. We had three consecutive rooms on the top floor; Anne-Marie and the Munchies in 404, Allie and me in 406, and Dad and Mom in 408. It was great! Later that week I would manage to carry a toaster from Anne-Marie’s room to Allie and my room on my head! That’s how close we were.

Pigtail Problems

Once we were all settled in, we headed out with Anne-Marie and the Munchies for the In The Pines family restaurant. We walked along the path, passing the pool area and the hot tub. The kids couldn’t wait to go in, but we told them we’d go swimming tomorrow after our hike.
We walked on. After a while we came to a fork in the path. The path to the left led toward the main hotel building, and the path to the right led to a dining area. We paused.

“Which way are we supposed to go?” Anne-Marie asked.
“This way,” I said, pointing to the left. “I can see a restaurant through the window there.” I pointed to a large window, through which we could see tables, chairs, and a bar.
“That doesn’t look very family friendly,” Mom commented. “I think it’s this way.”
Mom led us down the path to the right, up the stairs and through a door. We found ourselves standing in a fine dining room – totally not family friendly.
Several of the staff people – dressed in lacy tops and black pants – looked up at us, obviously scared that we were going to eat there.
“Where is the family dining?” Mom asked.
“Around the corner,” answered one of the staff people, pointing in the general direction of the way I wanted to go. Lindsey’s correct…once again.

I led them out and around to the family friendly dining area. The hostess led us to a long table and we sat down. The waitress came and handed out the menus. She gave Allie an adult menu, then she turned to me.

“Would you like a kid’s menu or…?” she asked. “How old are you?”
“I’d like the adult menu, please,” I replied. “I’m seventeen.”
She looked embarrassed and handed me an adult menu.
“Why did she think I was a kid?” I asked Allie once she’d gone.
“It could be your pigtails,” Allie replied. “They make you look younger.”
Up to this point, I hadn’t thought about my pigtails. Yeah, I’d had my hair in pigtails all day, but it had never occurred to me that my hair could’ve affected how old I looked. I took my hair out as the waitress returned.

“Can I get you anything?” the waitress asked.
“Excuse me,” I asked, “how old did you think I was?”
She thought. “I don’t know,” she replied. “Fifteen, maybe.”
I knew she was lying. The kid’s menu clearly states “for 10 and under”.



Haven’t read the 4 segments of Part One?: Preface, The Meeting, The Long Expected Party, & The Adventure.

And Part Two

 

Follow-Up : Saving Sour Cream October 30, 2009

Filed under: Baking, Homemaking — mom2giqm @ 7:23 pm


Just made my first dish using one of the tubs of sour cream that I froze a week and a half ago.

I made one of my favorite dishes…a dish that has it’s own business card (sort of)…my MIL’s Chicken Potato Dish. While the sour cream didn’t have the same consistency, it wasn’t too bad. Of course, it didn’t help that I totally FORGOT to add the cheddar cheese (I have a bad habit of making things without looking at the recipe).

All in all, it was a very worthy attempt to save my sour cream from being tossed, unused. Trust me. We will still happily eat this dish just the way it is (adding a little shredded cheddar when we reheat it, of course).

 

17: The Birthday of My Dreams – Part Two October 27, 2009

Filed under: Adoption, Family, Vacation — mom2giqm @ 3:22 pm


Anne-Marie’s Notes: I am so very excited to have my daughter, Lindsey, graciously writing some guest posts for my blog about our 2009 AZ Trip. Of course, no arm twisting was needed for the talented author to compile the tale.

If you have not already, you might want to read the Adoption Story to get a better understanding of our relationship.

The Trip – Day #2

The Crestview Community Church Adventure

I do not sleep well on sleepovers – especially on the first night. So, this mass “sleep-over”, if you will, was a little hard on my beauty sleep. By the time we arrived at Crestview Community Church for our 11:00 a.m. Church service, I’d had a total amount of 2.5 hours of sleep.

We all marched into the church, attracting quite an audience from onlookers. The greeter’s eyes bulged at the mere sight of our little group, and we exclaimed, “It looks like the bus was emptied here!”
“We’ve got donuts in the other room!” someone called.
The kids’ faces lit up. “No!!!!!!” Anne-Marie said, herding her children into the sanctuary.

It’s a miracle I didn’t fall asleep in church (due to being so sleep deprived). That’s all I remember about church – a really good sermon and feeling sleep deprived.

There wasn’t enough room for us all to sit together, so Mom, Anne-Marie, and the Munchies ended up sitting across the aisle from Dad, Allie and I. The Pastor provided the Munchies with Bible related activity booklets to keep them occupied.

We were on our way out of the sanctuary when Mom exclaimed, “The kids were so good, they deserve a donut!”

So Allie and I guided the Munchies into the donut room. They each grabbed a chocolate covered donut and munched away. The pastor’s wife laughed. “The kids always go for the chocolate ones.”

“Yeah,” I replied, “I’m probably the only one here who isn’t tempted to take one.” However, Allie stated later that she was not a donut person. So, this kid ODs on ice cream, and doesn’t like donuts? The things you learn on vacation.

We headed back to the cars, and Allie took advantage of the church’s cell phone reception to call her Mom and say “hi”.

The Hiking Adventure

Once back at the hotel, we parted ways for a brief time. Mom, Dad, Allie and I ate our New Frontiers deli sandwich lunch out on the porch of our creekhouse. From inside the creekhouse we could hear the NASCAR race blaring on the TV. Allie’s family has a tradition of watching NASCAR on the weekends, and voting on who will win the race. And of course, this trip would be no exception. Allie’s little brother had e-mailed her the name of a NASCAR racer guy whom her family had picked for her to vote for. Greg Biffel, or “The Biff” as Allie’s little brother had stated in his e-mail. Neither Allie nor I had heard of him – though I wouldn’t expect myself to know these things. I’m not into NASCAR (though I am guilty of watching the occasional NASCAR race now and then). Viva Jeff Gordon! Oops, did I say that? Harley Davidson Motorcycles are exciting enough for me. Whenever I see a Harley Davidson motorcycle, I cry out “HARLEY!”. Later, I would get into an argument with Allie’s older brother about the average speed of Harleys vs. “cheap imitation” motorcycles.

But I digress. Shortly after lunch, Allie and I had changed out of our church clothes and into more hiking appropriate clothes. My parents and the Shaffers did the same, and soon all nine of us were congregated in our creekhouse in preparation for our first hike – a short little hike up a trail behind the hotel. The Munchies were decked out in their swim gear, seeing as we’d be hiking right next to Oak Creek.

Finally, we all hiked out the door and down to the creek – all of us except for Mom and Anne-Marie, who were still busily talking about something of lesser importance (their lame excuse for delaying the start of our hike).

We were instructed to wait by the cattle-guard bridge, which we (being Allie and myself) did. But the Munchies headed right for the bridge.

“No kids!” we called, rushing up and pulling them away from the welcoming cattle-guard bridge.

Nate grabbed the tripod. “Come on,” he demanded, “set up the camera! This is the scene where…”

“We’re not filming anything until after the hike,” Anne-Marie stated as she and Mom approached.

We started our long, arduous journey across the bridge and up the trail. A little ways up the trail, we came to an area where a man-made canal ran under the path. We taught the Munchies the art of “Pooh-sticking” which kept their attention for about thirty some seconds.

We hiked up, Dad in the lead, followed by Nate, Allie, me, Helena, Gabe, Mom, Anne-Marie, and Danni. The Munchies ran to the edge of every drop off, scaring Anne-Marie and I to death.

Then, at last, we reached the top of the hill. Up there, Dad and I have a tradition of hiding pine cones and things like that under a rock. Every time we go up to Sedona, we check and see if the stuff is still there. It was, accompanied by millions of daddy-long-legs.

“Did you know,” Allie asked, “daddy-long-legs are one of the most poisonous spiders in the world?”

“What?” I asked in total shock. Don’t get me wrong, I am a very well-educated person. I’m just more interested in World War II dates and the capitals of African countries, and historical things that happened on my birthday.

“Yeah,” Anne-Marie said, “they’re one of the most poisonous spiders…but they can’t bite you cause their mouths are too small.”

Nate crouched down next to the spiders and shouted, “Losers! You’re loser spiders!” Allie and I cracked up.

We hiked on. The path became narrow, leading off to an almost straight drop off on one side. Anne-Marie took Danni by the hand, and I took Helena and we proceeded to cross this treacherous terrain. Attempting to keep Helena on the trail as much as possible, I stepped off the path and onto the side of the drop off, relying on the grip on my shoes to keep me from slipping to my death. It didn’t work. Loose sediment began to slide, taking me with it. In the nick of time, Anne-Marie grabbed me and pulled me to safety.

Suddenly, Dad exclaimed, “It’s a tarantula!”

The boys rushed forward to see. Allie took a picture. The girls pushed their way through the boys to see.

“That’s only a baby one,” Dad stated. “The ones at our house are huge.” He held up his hands to show how large they were.

“Wow,” Anne-Marie replied.

At last, Dad began to lead us off the trail and down toward the creek. The going was tough, especially because I was helping Helena along.

“Why can’t they just make these rocks like stairs?” Gabe replied.
I started to explain how the rocks were just there and happened to be part of a man-made path to the creek, but then figured that he was too young to comprehend what I was saying.

The creek at last! We helped the kids put on their water shoes and then watched them splash in the water. Allie and I watched from a rock in the creek. But, the Munchies really liked their big sister “Yindsey” and her friend “Island” (as Allie was called for the first day or so of the trip). Soon they were upon us, climbing around, literally, on top of us.

Munchies were all over me, grabbing my shirt for support. Like a knit tank top and a little empire waist shirt were going to save their lives.

Nate made his way across the creek, splashing in the water as he went. Gabe tried to follow, but slipped, grabbing Helena’s hair for support. Oh, that will give you so much more support than my tank top.

“Let go of your sister’s hair!” Anne-Marie called.

Gabe obeyed, but continued to follow Nate. Then, with a huge splash, Gabe was in the water, floundering for a rock to stand on. We all burst out laughing as he made his way back.

Nate was, by this time, on the other side of the creek, with no way of getting back. Anne-Marie took off her shoes and rock-hopped out as far as she could, which still wasn’t close enough. Then Allie took off her shoes and rock-hopped out to help Nate, having to step in the water in order to get close to him. But, by this time, Nate was on his way back safely, basically stranding Allie in the middle of the creek.

We started back toward the hotel. A large group passed us. Helena began to panic and exclaimed, “They’re going to steal our hotel room!”

We stopped at the AB Young trail to film one short scene, and then continued on our way back to the hotel. The boys and my Dad rushed ahead. Helena called to them, “Wait guys!” Needless to say, they didn’t wait. Isn’t that just like boys?

Helena humphed and muttered, “No-waiters.”

“Why don’t we take the kids to see the secret garden?” Mom suggested.

“Okay,” I replied, pushing my way to the front of the Munchies. “Follow me guys!” Nate and Gabe held my hands as I led them up the pathway. Allie followed. Mom and Anne-Marie had the girls.

“Up we go!” I called. “Just like the movie “Up”.”

“I really want to see that,” Allie stated. “Have you seen it yet?”

“[A friend of ours] wants to go see it,” I replied. “If she hasn’t seen it when I get back home, I’ll probably go see it with her…but she’s probably going to see it while I’m gone.”

“I don’t really know why they rated it PG,” Allie stated.

“It’s probably all that stuff movie makers put in nowadays,” I replied. “All that stuff I don’t want my two-year-old watching – hypothetically speaking, of course.”

Gabe looked shocked. “You have a two-year-old?”

I laughed. “No.”

Gabe got one of those gentle expressions on his face. “Lindsey, are you going to have a baby?”

Allie and I looked at each other, not knowing exactly how to react. “No.” I replied. “I should hope not. Anne-Marie would faint if I was going to.”

We arrived safely in the secret garden. The Munchies ran wildly through the garden as Dad collapsed, half dead from exhaustion, in the grass. Okay, okay, that was an over exaggeration. But we were all pretty tired.

Just for some details, the secret garden is a large patch of grass surrounded by tall pine trees. On the south side of the garden is a covered bridge which leads to a picnic table with a grill, and on the west side of the garden is a large wooden swing – large enough for all four Munchies to sit squished together. How do we know this? Simple answer – we tried it.

Dad swung the Munchies several times, then Anne-Marie, Helena and I got on for a much needed photo-op (we’d taken a boatload of pictures of me and the kids, and all nine of us as a group, but we had no pictures of just me and Anne-Marie!). Then Allie and I got on for our photo-op.

At last we headed back to our creekhouses for dinner. We’d gotten a work out that day, but we couldn’t wait to see what God had in store for tomorrow!


Haven’t read the 4 segments of Part One?: Preface, The Meeting, The Long Expected Party, & The Adventure.

 

Just for the Joy of It : My Top 25 Joys in Life October 22, 2009

Filed under: Blog Meme's, Family, Just for the Joy of It — mom2giqm @ 10:24 am


I could not resist the invitation to participate in Sharon’s blog meme about joy. Laughter is my favorite part of life. My day is not complete unless I have made someone else laugh. However, not having anything particularly joyful prepared, I had to sort of quickly decide what I should write concerning joy in my life. So, I decided to write briefly about the top things in my life that brings me joy! It’s not perfectly ordered, but the one’s that matter most are.

25) Losing weight – and keeping it off
24) Feeling better than I did the year before – more productive, more organized, more prepared
23) Being told I have a nice singing voice
22) Discovering new talents, developing new skills
21) Being a SAHHSM
20) Being able to make someone’s day thru something as simple as kindness
19) Getting thru the day without having killed anyone
18) Having people compliment my children on their manners
17) The stunned response from an employee when I bring the shopping cart back into the store
16) Having strangers tell me I look good
15) Having my husband tell me that I look good
14) My church family
13) Having a 60 yr man say to me (36), “I’ll defer to your knowledge.”
12) Getting responses to my blog
11) Making new friends thru social media
10) My Durango!
9) Starbucks – Grande, Non-fat w/whip Mocha.
8 ) Christian Rock & Heavy Metal – rocking out for Jesus!
7 ) Being a homeowner – I love home improvement projects
6 ) M – my youngest & funniest child – never ceases to make me smile (unless she’s being defiant and/or disobedient…and sometimes that’s even funny too). She even howls at the moon just because she can.
5 ) Q – always on the go -dancing & twirling & running & jumping & hopping & singing & drawing &…the list goes on – and oh, soooo drah-MA-tic. Hang nails & sucking chest wounds receive equal emphasis.
4 ) I – a lover & a fighter. He has always been extremely affectionate, but he loves to butt heads with me. As a toddler, he always wore a ski cap (we live in Florida). After we watched the first Spiderman movie, he pulled his ski mask over his nose, grabbed the sides of my head and kissed me on the lips…very slowly. And his love of hats protected his head when he fell head-first into an open pit fire at my in-laws.
3 ) G – 11 and not afraid of Mommy cooties. What he lacks in stealthiness, he makes up for in boisterous laughter. My little evangelist has been telling adults about Jesus since he was 5 or 6. Truly a light in a dark world.
2 ) Being blessed by God – particularly as it pertains my daughter, Lindsey, whom I have had the joy of knowing, seeing grow up, and even vacationing with. I never could have fathomed the blessings God would bestow on me…the depths of peace in my life…for listening and heeding His call to place her in the loving arms of a waiting family.
1 ) Growing in a personal relationship with the Savior who died for my sins!




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Works-For-Me Wednesday : Saving Sour Cream October 21, 2009

Filed under: Baking, Homemaking, Meal Planning, WMFW — mom2giqm @ 11:50 am

First time WFMW blogger here. Just thought I would warn you. This isn’t going to be the greatest post in the entire blogging world, but there was much rejoicing in my kitchen this morning…all by me, of course, and void of any musical accompaniment…but nonetheless.

Something in my fridge has been nagging me for awhile now. Sour Cream. More specifically, two unopened containers of sour cream with seemingly no hope of being used by their “best by” date (of yesterday…10.20.09).

Guess what? According to the experts at O Chef which I linked to from FoodChannel.com:

Unopened, commercially produced sour cream has a shelf-life of 45 to 60 days (Land O’Lakes-brand sour cream has a shelf life of 120 days), and certainly two or three weeks beyond the sell-by date.

You can freeze the sour cream (and we get about a dozen questions each day asking about that), but it will separate and not be the same when it thaws. If you’re just going to stir it into a soup or cook with it, that should be fine. If you intend to serve it as recognizable sour cream — say, on a baked potato — it will be disappointing.

Hey! That WORKS FOR ME!!!…since I only tend use sour cream in baking.

So, I thought I would share that glorious news in case someone else has some unopened sour cream with fast approaching “best by” date and no immediate plans to use it.

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PS – See my Follow-Up to see how freezing the sour cream worked out when I used it.

 

17: The Birthday of My Dreams – Part One: The Adventure October 5, 2009

Filed under: Adoption, Family, Vacation — mom2giqm @ 1:01 pm


Anne-Marie’s Notes: I am so very excited to have my daughter, Lindsey, graciously writing some guest posts for my blog about our 2009 AZ Trip. Of course, no arm twisting was needed for the talented author to compile the tale.

If you have not already, you might want to read the Adoption Story to get a better understanding of our relationship.

Part One is broken down into 4 segments: Preface, The Meeting, The Long Expected Party, & The Adventure.

The Adventure

Allie and I, along with some of my close friends back in Tucson, had filmed an amateur film back in March of 2009. I had sent it to Anne-Marie for mother’s day. My 9 year old brother Gabe also saw the movie which Allie and my other friends and I had created, and – being a wonderful human sponge – he absorbed and was inspired. He had to make a movie!

So, now in Sedona, with his three other siblings, big sister Lindsey, and Allie, he found his chance. He grabbed the family camera and I helped him attach it to my tripod.

Suddenly feeling an element of freedom, Gabe began to direct us, “Helena do this; Danni do that; Allie and Lindsey, pretend to be sleeping on the bed”. My 10 year old brother Nate was manning the camera. The film would be called “The Adventure”. It was about these people who get sent on a mission by the president (Nate) to find a treasure.

The only downside was that Allie, my friends back in Tucson and I had made a WW2 movie, in which the Germans were bad. They were referred to as “Nazis” throughout the movie, but somewhere in there, I guess we must have mentioned that the Nazis were Germans. Now I have nothing against Germans – being, myself, part German. But we failed to communicate the message that “all Germans aren’t Nazis”. All the Munchies – being only four of the many human sponges in the world – understood that to mean that all Germans are evil. So, guess who the bad guys were – Germans.

Altogether, the Munchies did a good job of putting everything together. They were really good actors for only being 10, 9, 6, and 5.

We were having a blast filming with the munchies, when Mom and Anne-Marie came in and told us it was time to go to bed. So we said “good-night” to the Munchies and returned to our creekhouse for the night. We would have to finish the Adventure later.

More of the story coming soon!